Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Seriously? NOW you are doubting paternity?

Having a lovely banter with the newly dubbed "sperm donor".  His main concern in the beginning of all of this?  "I don't want to be treated like a sperm donor, I have always promised myself that I would not be an absent father like mine was"...well guess what?  You just did it yourself.

As I have previously expressed within this blog, I recognized early on that I was not being as kind and as inclusive with him as I should have been.  I tried to include him.  Seems he wants all or nothing.  I have felt, in the last several days, that he is trying to stress me out to the point of miscarriage or lining up at the abortion clinic.  He was all help and hope in the beginning; but I think that this attitude was contingent upon my coming back to him and being a "family".  Now, not only is he questioning paternity, but he is also saying that it was my "misjudgment" that caused me not to have maternity coverage.  Perhaps it was his misjudgment that caused him to fire a live one into me after one minute without my permission or approval.  I hold steadfast in my knowledge that this little one has made it clear that being born is a non negotiable; otherwise I would be first in line to "deal with it".

Guess these things are good to know now.

What are my rights as a single pregnant woman in Florida??  Here is some information from Florida Title VI, Chapter 63 (funny this chapter is regarding adoption)

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